Lightening and thunder came and suddenly summer was over. Fall has started but in a sunny kind of way and with mild temperatures. Thanks god, now we can put on season’s finest.
But let’s switch to a serious subject: Did you every experienced envy? For your work, for your achievements, for your look, for your knowledge or even for just being you?
Sometimes I am jealous of those gorgeous beautiful bloggers with the thousands of Valentino bags. But then I see what I have and I know I can learn something from them. If not in a personal talk, maybe via watching and discovering.
But what I really don’t like is when people are jealous of me. I always ask myself why, because people start to act different and sometimes this envy turns into animosity and this can be dangerous. Especially for the soul.
So what would you do in those moments?
Blitz und Donner kamen und plötzlich war der Sommer vorbei. Herbst hat begonnen, aber auf sonnige Art und Weise mit milden Temperaturen. Gott sei dank können wir ab jetzt die Saison-Highlights anziehen.
Aber lasst uns ein ernsteres Thema ansprechen: Habt ihr jemals Neid erfahren? Für eure Arbeit, für euren Erfolg, für euer Aussehen, für euer Wissen oder sogar einfach nur weil ihr, ihr seid?
Manchmal bin ich auch neidisch auf die großen, hübschen Blogger mit ihren tausenden Valentino-Taschen. Aber dann erinnere ich mich daran, was ich alles erreicht habe und weiß, dass ich sogar etwas von ihnen lernen kann. Wenn nicht durch Gespräche dann durch Beobachten.
Aber was ich wirklich nicht mag, ist, wenn ich beneidet werde. Dann frage ich mich warum, denn die Menschen beginnen dann sich anders zu verhalten und ab und an verwandelt sich Neid in Hass und das kann gefährlich werden. Besonders für die Seele.
Was würdet ihr in solchen Augenblicken tun?
Top: Zara
Jeans: Karl Lagerfeld
Heels: BCBG
Bag: Michael Kors Hamilton
Jewelry | Watch: See by Chloé, Tiffany & Co. | Michael Kors
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This blouse is beautiful and I’m loving your hair like this!
xx Cara
http://www.carascliche.com
Hi, dear! Well… yes. Envy is very bad. I have experienced that and this not good for the soul, as you said. What I do… well, I tell people that I have difficulties – like I heard that gypsies do: they may be in a good situation, but they always say that they have difficulties. Sometimes it works, but we cannot pretend to be what we are not, so eventually the lie is discovered and envy restarts. Then as a second point I take a good distance from the person – believe me, this is what helps. Unfortunately, in general people don’t feel happy for someone’s happiness, only if the person fails. How awful is that! OK, just shared this because you asked what we do :) On a fashion note, I loved your yellow top – flamingo print, right? So sweet! I loved the shoes and I think you look always perfect, beautiful and savvy!
DenisesPlanet.com
I don’t want to say bye to summer!!! :'( Love that top, you look fab!
Kisses,
Anna
http://www.workingchix.com
Such an adorable print – love that top!
– Deniz
http://www.dressedupdeniz.com
I love this top! You’re so pretty :)
xoxo darling,
Melania – Mode in Technicolor
Very nice look. Love the top.
Kreyola Jounerys
Envy? It surprised me you envy other bloggers. Your blog has things many of theirs do not. Most importantly your blog has you. A genuine, real, sweet, gorgeous person. After 3 years of visiting hundreds of blogs, I can tell you that you are a beautiful island in a sea filled with very rough rocks.
Such a cute and fun top, dear! And the color is perfect on you and on minions too :)P The jeans are fantastic on your gorgeous legs, dear. Reminds me that the return of fall means the return of tights for you. I still have that amazing shot you sent the fellow on IG and still exciting every time for me!!
All Things Bright and Lovely
eh si bye vye summer, si torna a lavoro-studio .. outfit ideale colori perfetti e scarpe .. le adoro
fashionseducer.com
I love this outfit! Especially your bangles!
Check out my blog if you want: http://www.theglamandglitter.com
Tamara xxx
The top is so cute and I also love the pumps it’s very feminine but easy to wear!
You’ve got great fashion sense, dear! xoxo
I love this top, such a fun print! Jealousy is an ugly thing… I usually just choose not to pay attention to it.
Bella Pummarola
This is one of my favourite look of you, very chic and fashionable! Cool pics :)
Svetlana
http://capemaychic.weebly.com
Love this look, nice bag and shoes!
Kisses
Martina
http://www.pinkbubbles.it
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Summer is almost over in Italy too, sigh…
You look really great in this yellow top and jeans. Love the accessories too!
xoxo
http://www.bellezzefelici.blogspot.com
How gorgeous are you girl?! Seriously. You are stunning. And i LOVE LOVE this shirt especially paired with these shoes.
I’d love it if you checked out my latest post.
xx
Lex
http://www.lexnevin.com
I love your top!!
http://www.fashi0n-m0de.blogspot.it
great look sweetie…
kisses from dubai ♥
http://www.mahryska.com
Long live the Indian summer and your little shirt is really great!
XX
Justine http://lemagdejustine.wordpress.com
Really cute flamingo print top, love it! Gorgeous studded shoes too!
Prudence
http://www.prudencepetitestyle.com
Amazing outfit! I really like this yellow top! :)
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xoxo,
Jessica
That top is inspiring! Such a great look! I love the blue and yellow combo.
thesixthdisneyprincess.blogspot.com
Love you shirt ! Amazing look, are you blogging on wordpress ?
Kisses from Paris XxX
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wuaoo very nice look.
http://www.lavidaloka.com/
Very stylish look. Love your top.
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